True Self
When we moved to our home, I felt like I have had to create a peaceful home. In truth, I have had to create peace within. My own peace has come from reading peaceful parenting books and books/websites on spirituality. I've expanded on my spiritual reading to include Buddhism and Native American teachings. Everything that I had read I have shared with Chris and we discuss and apply what would work for us.
It bothers me when this realm of peace is disturbed. Particularly, when I yell at the children or get frustrated too quickly which leads me to not truly listen to them. This shouting and rude behavior toward my children is not the true self that I am. I am calm and laid back. I am forgiving and understanding. I am loving and gentle.
I feel like parents should model their behavior not dictate it. I have to go now, but I need to expand on this more...
It bothers me when this realm of peace is disturbed. Particularly, when I yell at the children or get frustrated too quickly which leads me to not truly listen to them. This shouting and rude behavior toward my children is not the true self that I am. I am calm and laid back. I am forgiving and understanding. I am loving and gentle.
I feel like parents should model their behavior not dictate it. I have to go now, but I need to expand on this more...
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